The FCD allows you to run more boost than the stock fuel system can handle. Fuel cut is your friend. So far, it has saved your engine.
Even an MHG with ARP's will not withstand detonation.
The MHG and ARP's are only part of what you need to safely run more boost.
The stock fuel system is good for around 14 psi. I say that loosely because every car is different. I was on the stock fuel system when I detonated at 15 psi and blew a head gasket.
You should also read up on the Duty Cycle of injectors. At 14psi, you're close to the danger zone. If not there already!
I would say leave it at 12 psi until you upgrade your fuel system. But hey...that's just some random guy on a forum giving advice...