So, I believe I've discovered my problem.
...we pulled off the upper intake manifold to hook up some wire seperators and steal my fuel rail to weld in a -8an bung for my new afpr (got a good deal on a holley 1:1 boost referenced on ebay. 29 bones) and noticed that there was coolant sitting in the runners. Not a lot, mind you, but it was still coolant.
Now, the car has an hks mhg, but it was installed prior to my owning it, so I cannot guarantee the work at all, but I can say that we retorqued it to 78ish ft. lbs (my motor tech did it, so I don't remember the exact number) when we relocated the fuse box to the front bumper earlier this year and didn't seem like it had any trouble until it hits boost. It idles flawlessly and runs perfect up until 10ish lbs of boost.
What I'm thinking is that the wall of missing I was describing earlier was coolant leaking around the cylinders due to bhg. I do know that the individuals who installed the headgasket were big mustang guys and don't know anything about forced induction of any kind so I HIGHLY doubt they shaved the head, or even checked the block with a straight edge before installing it.
So, long story short, looks like I'm going to be swapping a headgasket. I'm probably going to throw a spare stock hg that I have laying around from a gasket set in it and see if that helps.
If it doesn't, I'm lighting the car on fire.