another "ask the guy community" question about girls

SupraDerk

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686supra said:
i asked her out oin monday after we were foolin around a bit and she said wait, so im like wtf?


It seriously isn't that hard. Just move on, heh...that's the best way I can put it. Although I don't know your situation and I'm not you, so I can't speak for you.

But that right there looks like a big flag to me that she either doesn't want a relationship with you, or that you're the #2 man or more elegantly, "the play toy"

I don't know man, if you think it'll work and that you two will get together, then go for it! Heh, you're the only one that can make decisions for you.
 

Big Wang Bandit

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Im bad at moving on. Ive had some very big crushes before(and since im the nice guy they obviously take someone else) and its just tough. Hang around places you like. Your bound to meet someone with your interests!

Find a girl who likes cars.
 

686supra

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Jul 22, 2006
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o she loves car, she has a Chevy Cavalierr, but is giving it to her sister cause i talked her into going toyota and she is gonna get a 70's celica

thats an email she sent me like a week ago....???

"hey i missed ya when u were gone did u have fun?thanx for callin me...well i dont kno wut time ur done work at but we should hang out at nite one day...plus i wus thinking and i dont honestly wanna smoke anyways i dunno why i wus stoked i geuss just cuz its summtin thats not that easy to get a hold of especaily for someone like me but it wus jsut plain luck...ill save em for maby party and give em away or summtin i dunno...unless u still smoke'em??anyways...i kno me and u have been kinda iffy latly but i wus thinking and.....ive liked alot of different guys and all of them have let me down except for some reason u never do and eventhough u have energy atleast thats better then being boring and eventhough lotsa other guys act less "outgoing" they hurt me and u never would...thats more worth it for me...but ya i better go have a awsome week see ya hunni <3(i hope that made sense)" <3"


so its kind of a complex situation for me
 

SupraDerk

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HellsLegion said:
Im bad at moving on. Ive had some very big crushes before(and since im the nice guy they obviously take someone else) and its just tough. Hang around places you like. Your bound to meet someone with your interests!

Find a girl who likes cars.


Haha, yeah it's tough, but you can't let your life pass you by while you're waiting on that "one girl" to finally see the light that is you. It'll probably never happen, heh

I used to be the nice guy, hell I still am! So it's not even a matter of "nice guys finish last." The truth is that you're not gonna win every battle, but eventually you'll find a girl that likes you for you, and then you will have won the war. :)

But if you don't live to fight another battle (if you don't move on! haha)...then defeat is a guarantee (no relationship for you!) :naughty:
 

686supra

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Jul 22, 2006
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i think im let this one linger on a bit more and if nothing comes from it, i geuss id just better get on with my life
Man i hate not having a license + car its fucking retarted!!! i mean like i cant do anytrhing without my parents gettin on my case haha,
and its so much easier to have a gf when you have a fucking car :( lol
 

bigaaron

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MKIII N00b said:
ok so the girl that i used to like (and she felt the same way) is having doubts about her relationship, as if things are going down hill...and so im here talking to her, about the issue and being the nice person that i am helping out. one time we had a huge convo about why things between us went sour, and it was because at the time we were 'seeing' each other a guy she liked at the same time told her that he felt jealous everytime i hugged her, and he knew that there was something going on between us. anyways so after he told her how he felt she backed down and put herself in a love triangle, and as everyone knows...they just dont work. so now we are good friends, and there is still a part of both of us that says that we still like each other. right now shes in a relationship...like it says up there, and things arent going so great...which brings me to say this...when we had our big convo she asked me if i sitll liked her i said yes i do, and i told her that i would wait till shes single again. and so heres my question, the way things are going with her relationship now...it doesnt look so good, i hope that i get to be with her after shes done with her BF...but not right away, like ill be there to comfort her when she needs it like every guy should...and then when things start to get better, ill do what i have to do. so guys...tell me your thoughts.


Why do you care about her feelings so much?
Are you going to get laid or not?
The sooner you stop worrying about womens feelings the better you will be.
They all have all this smoke and mirror bs about this and that, but the real question is can you hit it or not? If not, find another one.
 

686supra

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Jul 22, 2006
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thats the problem with alot of guys now a days haha,
not that there is anything wrong with gettin laid ;) haha
but i like having relationships, when you fuck, it just feels better for some reason cause you can actually connect....
 

Insidious Surmiser

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SupraDerk said:
Haha, yeah it's tough, but you can't let your life pass you by while you're waiting on that "one girl" to finally see the light that is you. It'll probably never happen, heh

I used to be the nice guy, hell I still am! So it's not even a matter of "nice guys finish last." The truth is that you're not gonna win every battle, but eventually you'll find a girl that likes you for you, and then you will have won the war. :)

But if you don't live to fight another battle (if you don't move on! haha)...then defeat is a guarantee (no relationship for you!) :naughty:

agreed 100%... IMO if she "likes" you... she will want to be w/ you.... PERIOD... if this isn't happening... move on, don't wait around for something to happen, because nothing will...
 

Insidious Surmiser

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HellsLegion said:
Im living my life with my Supra day by day. She is my girl =P

agreed... so far this summer... engine swap + new brakes + bic ddp + custom exhaust + lot of other fun times and goodies.... clutch master cyl, oil pan gasket, oil press. sending unit, fixing a/c, fixing p/s... lol, at least when i spend time + $ on the supra.. it actually yields positive results :p :biglaugh: