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GrimJack

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Two things come to mind.

First, there's a significant trend towards the 'entitlement attitude' among folks online. These are the people who think the internet in general owes them something. They ask questions without even a token search to see if it's already been covered. They are impatient, and bump their threads more than is necessary, or even more than will help. Basically, they act as though the internet should be their mommy and daddy. The closer you, or anyone, for that matter, resembles this profile, the less respect and attention your posts will receive. At the far end of the scale, the absolute entitlement individual will be pointlessly flamed, often with outright acceptance for the bad behavior from the community. I'm not saying this applies to you specifically, I'm simply writing out the characteristics. You get to be your own judge.

Second, we don't know you. We don't talk to you, on the phone, or in person. The ONLY criteria that we have to judge your character is your writing, and, to a small degree, how well you keep your word. If you take shortcuts while writing - ignore spelling, grammar, or worse, deliberately substitute "u" for "you", misuse words - "two", "too", and "to" come to mind, omit capitalization and punctuation, then this reflects on your character. We tend to think you act the same way when turning wrenches - ignore torque settings, use imperial wrenches on metric bolts because they are 'close enough', assemble parts without cleaning or lubrication, etc, etc. This may not be correct - you may be an exceptional mechanic who writes poorly, however, the impression remains.
 

Poodles

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IJ.;1603197 said:
I often don't have time for a wordy reply, people mistake this for me being an asshat, if they put aside their delicate sensibilities and read the reply carefully they'd realise the info is accurate even if I haven't taken time to coddle them.

That's what he's for :rofl: VV

GrimJack;1603241 said:
Two things come to mind.

First, there's a significant trend towards the 'entitlement attitude' among folks online. These are the people who think the internet in general owes them something. They ask questions without even a token search to see if it's already been covered. They are impatient, and bump their threads more than is necessary, or even more than will help. Basically, they act as though the internet should be their mommy and daddy. The closer you, or anyone, for that matter, resembles this profile, the less respect and attention your posts will receive. At the far end of the scale, the absolute entitlement individual will be pointlessly flamed, often with outright acceptance for the bad behavior from the community. I'm not saying this applies to you specifically, I'm simply writing out the characteristics. You get to be your own judge.

Second, we don't know you. We don't talk to you, on the phone, or in person. The ONLY criteria that we have to judge your character is your writing, and, to a small degree, how well you keep your word. If you take shortcuts while writing - ignore spelling, grammar, or worse, deliberately substitute "u" for "you", misuse words - "two", "too", and "to" come to mind, omit capitalization and punctuation, then this reflects on your character. We tend to think you act the same way when turning wrenches - ignore torque settings, use imperial wrenches on metric bolts because they are 'close enough', assemble parts without cleaning or lubrication, etc, etc. This may not be correct - you may be an exceptional mechanic who writes poorly, however, the impression remains.

But honestly, if you have a complaint, at least give details...
 
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IJ.;1603197 said:
I often don't have time for a wordy reply, people mistake this for me being an asshat, if they put aside their delicate sensibilities and read the reply carefully they'd realise the info is accurate even if I haven't taken time to coddle them.

It's because you're too busy fondling me to coddle anyone else. :love:
 

JStoked

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Ok thanks to all and yes my spelling sucks so bad im from oklahoma sorry. I'm sorry i had to post this thread just to learn how a forum works. Thank you to all of you i read all and will shut my pie whole now and take in all the information i can in and just learn. Like i said im a newbe i love and have so much respect for these cars its crazy. So again thanks to all that posted on this thread.
 

IJ.

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Think of it as a "right of passage" ;)

When I first came here everyone thought I was a fruitcake with some of the things I was doing, these days I help run the place and hopefully have been of some help to the members in general :)

If your spelling both sucks and blows just cut/paste it into your e-mail program spell check it then cut/paste it back into the forum, it's really not that hard and will save a lot of the grief/bullshit.

In general the members here are great guys if you make an effort.
 

trucker

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nick88;1603352 said:
Still are.... :)

My computer has spellcheck in the actual post reply, its in my browser...

I really, really need that. And maybe a typing class.....


IJ i really hate you....bring up F&F, AND get to fondle DT? What really goes on behind those curtains? I don't think it is the bathouse she said it was....
 

IJ.

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nick88;1603352 said:
Still are.... :)

My computer has spellcheck in the actual post reply, its in my browser...
Well DUH Nick :p

trucker;1603372 said:
I really, really need that. And maybe a typing class.....


IJ i really hate you....bring up F&F, AND get to fondle DT? What really goes on behind those curtains? I don't think it is the bathouse she said it was....
She rang me for my birthday as well ;)
 

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89nasupra

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IJ.;1603349 said:
Think of it as a "right of passage" ;)

When I first came here everyone thought I was a fruitcake with some of the things I was doing, these days I help run the place and hopefully have been of some help to the members in general :)

If your spelling both sucks and blows just cut/paste it into your e-mail program spell check it then cut/paste it back into the forum, it's really not that hard and will save a lot of the grief/bullshit.

In general the members here are great guys if you make an effort.

When Ian joined pagers / beepers were "in style" ... lol j/k don't ban me please kind sir!!

All BS aside, this site is great and all the members are great as well. You may / will hear this place is like a Nazi camp but that is from people how could not follow the rules. Lots of info is to be had here and a simple search would yeild lots results. If you have searched and can;t come up with what you need list the search phases you used and what you are after and people will be more than happy to point you in the right direction or even link you a thread that may help you with what you are ofter. i have a Supramania favorites fold on my PC at home with all teh links i will or have needed in teh past to help with cutting back teh search efforts. You may want to try that also just to save you some time.
 

Zumtizzle

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Jeremy,

I feel your pain at moments.

There are some guys that i come to for help, and advice.

But, some of the vendors on here have screwed me over (lies, and pushing me aside), and there are some straight up dumbfucks on this forum (well community as a whole).

All in all, I'm still here, and ready to lend my two cents, and help.
 

Supracentral

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Zumtizzle;1603717 said:
some of the vendors on here have screwed me over (lies, and pushing me aside),

Please PM me the details. Our vendors earn their slots with good customer service and deals for SM members. They don't pay to be here, and if any of them are "screwing people over" I need to hear about it...
 

Zumtizzle

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Supracentral;1603726 said:
Please PM me the details. Our vendors earn their slots with good customer service and deals for SM members. They don't pay to be here, and if any of them are "screwing people over" I need to hear about it...

Mike,

I'll just let it be, as resolutions have long been made.

They've straightened up, (well two aren't even a vendor on this forum anymore, and continue to owe people money.)

No real fraud was committed in the end, and I should be happy as Manny Alves is still striking on SF!

Also, Jeremy and his brother are good people, I think this is Jeremy's first forum, so the noobieness is here. I personally started on a gran theft auto (the rockstar game) forum.
 
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