225*F is warmer than I would run the car, but on the stock gauge still shows in the "acceptable" range. So basically, Toyota thought it was ok, but they also thought the head gasket torque was good too
. You have to remember that 212*F is boiling for water, so if you're going that warm you're adding more pressure to the system. All it takes is one pin hole leak for a hose to explode at that point.
ECU happy range is 180 - 210. Under 180 it goes in to a rich warmup mode and above 210 it tries to do things to prevent the engine from getting warmer. 210*F is when the extra electric fan(s) beside the mechanical clutch fan will engage. A stock system with the stock thermostat (190*F) on a relatively stock motor should keep it between 180 and 195 for most regular driving. If I'm driving on a warmer day and pushing the car a bit, I might see 200 or 205, but not really any higher. If you let the car sit after being warm for 5 - 10 minutes, you'll get some heat soak that will show higher on startup but it should drop down within 10 seconds of starting the car.
My car has an upgraded 57-trim CT26 @ ~10psi, 3" turbo back cat delete exhaust, 2.5" IC hard pipes, and I'll stay within those numbers.