Price? Hands down the Holset Hy35, not the hx as the hy has a smaller exhaust housing.
Reliability? Hands down again the Holset. Ive seen the diesel guys cook these things to oblivion and the turbo still runs.
Spool? I think this may be a little bit of a toss up.
The hy flows about 57lbs a minute and measures the following
Compressor minor/major: 52.75mm/77.84mm
Turbine minor/major: 57.98mm/65.20mm
The GT3582R flows approx 61 lbs
Compressor minor/major: 61.4mm/82.0mm
Turbine specs: 68mm w/ 84 trim
So on the wheel ends of things, the hy35 is has a smaller rotating mass than the GT35R, but lacks the latest in ball bearing design. That being said, the hy35 and the he351cw have been called the "poor mans" gt35r.
You figure you can pick up a hy35 or he351cw used, running, for $300 or so. You will spend $1500 for a gt35R. Sure both could be blown up in a matter of seconds, but the holset will cost you $200-350 to have rebuilt. Or you could just go buy a new one. So in the long run, you could go through 4 holsets before you were up to the price of one Gt35R. Did I mention the Gt35R is non-rebuildable?
For some more thought provoking....
-Hy35, flows approx 57 lbs/min
-Hx35, flows approx 60.85 lbs/min
-He351cw (Spools faster than the hx35, but makes the same power) flows approx 60.85 lbs/min
-Hx40, flows approx 70.10 lbs/min
-Hx45 (can't find the flow at this time)
-Hx50/52 or 55. flows approx 99.20 lbs/min
-Hx60 (Notice I didn't say HT60), flows approx 125.66 lbs/min
-Hx82, flows approx 198.42 lbs/min