My GF broke up with me for the dumbest reason last Thursday. It was a bit upseting considering the fact that we went out for almost 4 years, so I poured a Red Label on the rocks and lit up a joint.
The weekened came, and it was the best fuckin time of my life. I didn't have to worry about anything. I finally felt like I was able to go back to my old ways, a part of me that felt like it was missing for a very long time.
Over the weekend I hooked up with my buddies GF's best friend who also broke up with her BF. Anyways, were not going out, but just seeing each other since we both don't want commitment the moment. She's a very cool girl, and loves to do everything that I've always wanted to do, but couldn't because of the EX. It was the same thing for her, but her ex BF didn't want to do anything she wanted to do.
I thought that being single would suck, but it fuckin rocks. Im glad that I met someone that was experiencing the same things that I was, and has a lot on commen with me. I feel bad for moving on soo quick, but all my friends say it's what I need, and I have every right to move on.
EDIT: Why did we break up:
She slept with another guy in a a night club storage room a few years ago near the beginning of our relationship. I was nice and forgave her for it, however never I never forgot the situation. Then a few months ago, her and two other friends went to the bar, when I asked if she needed to be picked up she said that they had a ride. My friend Kyle (who going out with my GF best friend) phoned me and tolded my about these guys that they invited back to my GF house at 3:00am. I met up with him in my GF driveway to find my GF and some stranger all over eachother. We had an arguement, but things went back to normal a few days later. There were also countless times that she and her friends ended up in hotel rooms with unknown guys after the bar aswell.
After that my friends had the impression she cheated on me. I even had several womens opinions on the situation, all thinking that she cheated. Last week my GF says I don't trust her. I simply said "I do trust you, but sometimes I get these thoughts because of those situations and that I'm not the only person concerned." She replied saying that I obviously didn't trust her for the entire time we were together. However she also told me that the didn't break up with me earlier because she was scared or didn't like the idea of being alone. Now she blames it all on me and says that I'm the one with the problems.
She has sent me text messages, and trying to find anyway to try to talk to me without actually speaking to me. I just ignore them, or reply with a simple "K" or "no" showing her I don't care. She asked my what I was doing on the 26th for my B-day, so I said Im going to see strippers and get loaded with the guys. She got pissed off at that and said the she hates me and my friends. Why the hell did she even get mad if we aren't going out? You tell me.
All my friends say I should move on and that I don't deserve to put up with any of her shit. Im have a feeling in a week or so she'll be begging for me back. I don't know what to do since Ive got a thingh going on with someone else who wants the same thing, NO COMMITMENT. I can see things with the two of working out great in a few months when things settle down for the both of us. I just don't want to this new girl to want to start something with me and the EX come back in the picture begging for me back
I know it all sounds somewhat confusing, but what would you do? I'd still like to be friends with the EX, but thats all. I'm scared that the situation where this new girl and I get to know each other better and possibly start something might happen, and the the EX beg for me back. Should I give a Fuck or not. What would you do about the situation, did I do, or am I doing the right thing? Im loving being single too much, im starting to think about this shit.
The weekened came, and it was the best fuckin time of my life. I didn't have to worry about anything. I finally felt like I was able to go back to my old ways, a part of me that felt like it was missing for a very long time.
Over the weekend I hooked up with my buddies GF's best friend who also broke up with her BF. Anyways, were not going out, but just seeing each other since we both don't want commitment the moment. She's a very cool girl, and loves to do everything that I've always wanted to do, but couldn't because of the EX. It was the same thing for her, but her ex BF didn't want to do anything she wanted to do.
I thought that being single would suck, but it fuckin rocks. Im glad that I met someone that was experiencing the same things that I was, and has a lot on commen with me. I feel bad for moving on soo quick, but all my friends say it's what I need, and I have every right to move on.
EDIT: Why did we break up:
She slept with another guy in a a night club storage room a few years ago near the beginning of our relationship. I was nice and forgave her for it, however never I never forgot the situation. Then a few months ago, her and two other friends went to the bar, when I asked if she needed to be picked up she said that they had a ride. My friend Kyle (who going out with my GF best friend) phoned me and tolded my about these guys that they invited back to my GF house at 3:00am. I met up with him in my GF driveway to find my GF and some stranger all over eachother. We had an arguement, but things went back to normal a few days later. There were also countless times that she and her friends ended up in hotel rooms with unknown guys after the bar aswell.
After that my friends had the impression she cheated on me. I even had several womens opinions on the situation, all thinking that she cheated. Last week my GF says I don't trust her. I simply said "I do trust you, but sometimes I get these thoughts because of those situations and that I'm not the only person concerned." She replied saying that I obviously didn't trust her for the entire time we were together. However she also told me that the didn't break up with me earlier because she was scared or didn't like the idea of being alone. Now she blames it all on me and says that I'm the one with the problems.
She has sent me text messages, and trying to find anyway to try to talk to me without actually speaking to me. I just ignore them, or reply with a simple "K" or "no" showing her I don't care. She asked my what I was doing on the 26th for my B-day, so I said Im going to see strippers and get loaded with the guys. She got pissed off at that and said the she hates me and my friends. Why the hell did she even get mad if we aren't going out? You tell me.
All my friends say I should move on and that I don't deserve to put up with any of her shit. Im have a feeling in a week or so she'll be begging for me back. I don't know what to do since Ive got a thingh going on with someone else who wants the same thing, NO COMMITMENT. I can see things with the two of working out great in a few months when things settle down for the both of us. I just don't want to this new girl to want to start something with me and the EX come back in the picture begging for me back
I know it all sounds somewhat confusing, but what would you do? I'd still like to be friends with the EX, but thats all. I'm scared that the situation where this new girl and I get to know each other better and possibly start something might happen, and the the EX beg for me back. Should I give a Fuck or not. What would you do about the situation, did I do, or am I doing the right thing? Im loving being single too much, im starting to think about this shit.
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