I highly reccomend the K&N FIPK, it has much more surface area than the Apex unit.
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About the "drilling the afm"
That is a pretty bad description of what you actually do.
There is a section in the afm that measures the air. This section has the "electronics" as they are lovingly refered to, in it. All electronics are the same and theoretically, they should all give the same ouput when the same amount of air passes through them. But they don't.
So there is a second chamber in the afm that is mostly blocked off be a calibration screw. Toyota blew a known amount of air through avery afm and adjusted this screw so that every afm gave the same output.
This chamber is just there to let toyota get away with a little slop in manufacturing, and still have precision in metering the air. If a meter read higher than the benchmark, then some of the air would be bypassed through the unmetered section to lower the ouptup from the electronics to match the benchmark. If it read lower, then less air would be bypassed, and the electronics would have a higher output.
This all make sense so far?
After they were calibrated, toyota plugged the hole so we wouldn't mess with it. When you remove the plug, you can turn the adjustment screw and recalibrate your afm. The outcome of letting more air bypass the elctronics is that the ecu doesn't see as much air, so it thinks that you aren't running as much boost as you are, so instead of reaching FCO at 11-12 psi, you can adjust it, in some cases, as high as 17 psi.
The downside is that since it thinks less air is present, the ecu injects less fuel, so you run leaner. Also, the ECU advances timing, as it thinks that the boost pressure is lower, so more timing would be appropriate.
This is not a mod I would do without the ability to moniter my egts and afr. ACCURATELY. a lean motor running at 17 psi will soon be a dead motor. but with proper fuel upgrades to compensate for the added air, this is a cheap and effective mod.