I've done pretty much the reverse, putting an '87T engine ECU and harness into my '89 body.
I didn't have to deal with the motor mounts, since mine's an early '89, and had the same mounts.
Use the mounts from your '86.5 engine. Bolt in is all good.
ECU and chassis harness plug in yellow to grey no problem. The only big issue was ABS for me, and that wasn't that big a hurdle at all. Also, there's a change in the headlight line to the ECU which may cause you an issue. I know it does the other way, but it's not a big deal. (If you don't have ABS, but the donor car did, there may be other issues to get around.)
I wouldn't try to source an older ECU and harness myself, I'd just use the ones that I have. (Though if you were closer, I'd trade you.
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There aren't enough issues with the mismatched harness to make a big deal out of.